Nancy Bryan-Ellison Nancy Bryan-Ellison

A Sign of God's Steadfastness?

Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.
— Hebrews 13:8 NRSV

Walking our dog the other day in our neighborhood, I noticed that few leaves have dropped. In fact, all of the leaves are still essentially green, and it is November 14. I have never experienced that before in my life.

Part of that realization makes me sad, reminded again that our climate is changing and that we are a major contributor to that reality, so different than what many of us knew in an earlier time. But on that walk, I saw something else. In all seasons, God is creating and sustaining life, regardless of what goes on around us. God is behind the scenes, consistent in God's active love for us and all of creation. We can trust that, even when the evidence seems contrary.

Eventually, we will get air cold enough to color and drop leaves and enable us to see our breath. Winter will come. But God's steadfast love will live forever.

Amen.

Read More
Nancy Bryan-Ellison Nancy Bryan-Ellison

A message of gratitude from Erika Rivera!

On the Sunday after Erika Rivera’s accident, she received a Special Mission Recognition award by United Women in Faith. She accepted it in the hospital with her children Lindsey and Shawn.  

Dear FUMC Plano Family,

Thank you!! What do you say when thank you isn't enough?

As many of you know, I was in a terrible car accident on September 3, 2024, where I was severely injured. I broke my right femur bone in half, broke my back, had a large laceration down my forehead and several lacerations on my left leg. All devastating injuries to me as I am a person who is mobility challenged.

The 20 days in the hospital were somewhat of a blur, but I do remember the many people who came to visit which lifted my spirit and gave me the confidence to go on. I was transferred to a skilled nursing facility and stayed 31 days. The day I arrived I could only sit on the edge of the bed. The work ahead of me was very painful and infested itself in me not only physically but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I began to lose hope that I would ever walk or be able to independently care for myself again. Darkness set in and I found myself very depressed, angry, and irritable. Why did this happen? Where is God? How do I even possibly navigate life from here?

Well, I know exactly where God was. He was in YOU! I received so many cards, phone calls, visits, and most importantly lots of prayers from my family and you – my brothers and sisters in Christ, who found me at one of my darkest hours and lovingly helped me back up and gave me the courage and strength to move onward.

With a lot of hard work and determination I became strong enough to transfer to an acute rehab where they are able to build on my progress and teach me new skills, techniques, and exercises. After two months and three days, I am now preparing to go HOME!

Life looks different now, but that's okay. I have received the gift of peace. No matter how hard, no matter the outcome, I am peace, and I know it's going to be okay. 

I want everyone to know that YOU ARE the hands and feet of Jesus! We belong to such an awesome church full of like-minded loving Christians who are being led by example by our outstanding staff. You have taught me the power of prayer is real. You are bringing me through this journey, each person individually and collectively. I am so blessed to be a part of seeing God's hands at work.

The best way I know to say thank you for all you've done for me is to pay it forward by lifting people in prayer, listening to others, and loving on each one just where they are. Just know, FUMC Plano, that YOU have demonstrated your unwavering faith. You are the hands and feet of Jesus and I am so blessed to be a part of that community. 

I miss you all beyond measure and can't wait to see you again soon - back at the Welcome Center!!

Love to all,

Erika 

Read More
Nancy Bryan-Ellison Nancy Bryan-Ellison

God is Bigger

Disclaimer: This column was coming regardless of the elections’ outcomes.

To the relief of everyone, the 2024 election season is over. For some that spells elation, for others dejection; for everyone, relief.

Followers of Jesus Christ always look for the bigger picture, regardless. In the bigger picture, God is bigger: bigger than our greatest joys and bigger than our most stinging setbacks and pain. The Cross reminds us that there is a much larger drama unfolding in creation and the billions of years with God’s hand on its continuing unfolding. The crucifixion and the resurrection raise our sight lines above the temporal sadness and joys of our world. They remind us that God is redeeming ALL of God’s creation “in life, in death, in life beyond death,” as the liturgy says. We can trust that.

As the writer of Hebrews says, “Faith is the reality of what we hope for, the proof of what we don’t see” (Hebrews 11:1). God has always been steadfast in doing a new thing in our lives and the life of this planet. So, heads up everyone, and let’s get behind THAT agenda. See you tonight at our Service of Peace and Healing at 7 p.m. in our Chapel and on Sunday morning for worship in the Sanctuary.  

Breathe peace,

Read More
Nancy Bryan-Ellison Nancy Bryan-Ellison

Vote. It’s an Act of Love

When Jesus said, “Give to Caesar what is Caesar’s and give to God what is God’s,” those are usually two different things. That is not the case when it comes to voting. 

In a democracy, our right to vote is our power to love on a broad and social scale. With it we have the opportunity to join with others in “doing unto others as we would have them do unto us.”  In this case, it is how we would have our representative government “do unto us” and all those we join in serving in the name of love. It is only the government that can do good on such a large scale.  For that to work well, it must be made up of people who have a similar conviction to love and to serve with integrity. This makes every one of our votes essential. 

I mentioned Sunday that after voting early, I realized that I had voted for about 50% Democratic candidates and 50% Republican candidates. This is because in each instance, and with research, I believed that it was those individuals who best represented the virtues that I think are essential for governing on our behalf:  character, competence, and compassion. These are the virtues of Jesus who is my starting point for everything in my life, and they exist in candidates in both parties. Studying to find those takes a bit of work, and this, too, is an act of love. The winners will be making decisions that will affect us and the world for years to come. Our act of faith and of love is to elect the very best of us to make those decisions. Yes, I am giving to Caeser with my vote, but I am giving to God and God’s world first with my vote. 

Separate Note: The season and the election have been exhausting and feelings will be charged and mixed after November 5. So, on November 7, we will hold a Service of Peace and Healing in our Chapel at 7 p.m. This will be a quiet, musical time of meditation and reflection on our God who is bigger than any election and outcome. Pastors will be available for prayer. It is open to all who seek a safe and healing place in an anxious time. As John Wesley said, “The best of all is God is with us.”

See you on Sunday for our All Saints Remembrance.

Read More
Nancy Bryan-Ellison Nancy Bryan-Ellison

United Methodists: “stick-to-ative” for as long as it takes

One does not have to look far within and outside our own congregation to see how our love is “sticky,” as in “stick-to-ative.” Our football coach would say this to the defensive backs meaning that they had to stay right with – stay close to – the opposing receiver going out for a pass until the play was over. Sometimes plays became extended. The defensive back was to “stick” to the man he was covering for as long as it took. 

Through our Stephen Ministry, our people, our partner organizations, and our staff, we dedicate ourselves as a church to sticking with people in need for as long as they are in need. Several people have asked me why we are not doing more in relief for the people in Florida, Georgia, and North Carolina. My response has been, “Stay tuned.” So far, we have taken in some $2000 for our national United Methodist Committee on Relief. That is a modest sum, and only the beginning.

In disaster relief, there actually is an order in which the various Christian groups provide aid. The Texas Baptist Men get headlines because of the excellent job they do in arriving with meal trucks and volunteers within days of a natural disaster, providing immediate and much needed food, water, and comfort. However, various kinds of aid are needed long after the disaster has left the 24-hour news cycle. Our senior high youth traveled this summer to help people in Louisiana rebuild the interior of their homes still damaged by … Hurricane Katrina. That was 2005. Fortunately for those folks and the folks in Florida, Georgia, and North Carolina, the United Methodist Church will be there long after the world has moved on to the next headline.

Soon, you will see orange buckets lined up along the Grand Hallway. We will fill these flood buckets with cleaning supplies that will be shipped to replenish the Sager-Brown Warehouse in Louisiana, now depleted because of the thousands already sent to people who need them most. FUMC Plano will be a local storage depot for buckets from area UMCs before taken to Louisiana. The offering from our Christmas Pops Concert will be dedicated to UMCOR’s long-term hurricane relief efforts in the southeast. Our Mission Committee is discussing trips to the southeast to assist people in their rebuilding. Of course, you can always donate to UMCOR’s hurricane response efforts knowing that 100% of your gift goes directly to aid.

“Sticky.”  It’s what love is – “stick-to-ative” to people in need – not just today, but for as long as it takes.

See you in worship this Sunday.

P.S. As a supporter of FUMC Plano and its future, be sure to bring or send in your Estimate of Giving Card for 2025; we need everyone to keep moving forward.  THANK YOU!

Read More
Nancy Bryan-Ellison Nancy Bryan-Ellison

Humility: A Common Ground for Us All

My dad was big, and bigger than life to me, his only son. I knew he had all the answers, especially to the big questions in life. Consequently, I felt like I needed to learn and know all the answers. It caught me off guard then, when in a casual moment I said to him around college graduation time, “Dad, I don’t know what I want to do when I grow up.” His response caught me off guard still more:  “Neither do I.”

It was an unexpected and deeply reassuring moment of humility on both our parts I think; it certainly was for me. There was suddenly permission to NOT have, or HAVE to have, “all the answers” when I thought and felt like I had to. There was acceptance of the idea that OTHER people could have answers I DON’T have and that I could learn from them.  

Humility. It’s a virtue our country and culture would benefit from having more. I have been listening to various political debates and interviews, trying to get a sense of the candidates’ character, competence, and kindness. It has consistently frustrated me that no candidate of either party answers the interviewers’ direct question directly, even after being asked twice and sometimes three times. Just once I would like to hear a candidate say, “Yes, I said that,” or  “Yes, I voted that way,” and then go on to say, “In hindsight, I think that was a mistake” or, “I have learned more since that decision, and I would vote differently now because I now understand that issue differently.” It would require humility and great courage and, I think, it would be the right thing to do. It would say honestly that we are all growing, that none of us have all the answers, and that we need to work together to fashion better answers for everyone’s benefit. 

This Sunday I will be speaking on humility, knowing full well – all these years later – that I still don’t have all the answers. However, I believe that with a spirit of kindness and respect, we will together fashion better answers to help EVERYone move forward.

See you in worship!

P.S. As a supporter of FUMC Plano and its future, be sure to bring or send in your Estimate of Giving Card for 2025; we need everyone to keep moving forward.  THANK YOU!

Read More
Nancy Bryan-Ellison Nancy Bryan-Ellison

Simple Points of Kindness: Burgers & Dogs

I have been encouraged by several folks who have appreciated the hand-out, “30 Acts of Kindness.” These are not new ideas but helpful, it seems, to our mindset in these fractious times. 

Similarly, we are again including relaxed variations of “passing the peace” during worship in the Sanctuary. Somehow, in these anxious and uncertain times, the simple act of shaking a hand and greeting a neighbor with a smile and the peace of Christ seems fresh and … well, nice!

It encouraged me to ask church members and my down-the-street neighbor Mik Ichiba if we would again assist me in hosting our end-of-the-street cookout and games gathering for our neighbors, several of whom have moved in since our first one last October. We have games for the kids, music, name tags and, of course, burgers and hot dogs. But that’s just the baseline.

Our neighborhood is a miniature United Nations, so we invite everyone to bring their favorite cultural dish and describe it to everyone. It was so much fun. Mik brought a Japanese delicacy. Tien, my next-door Vietnamese friend, brought an incredible dish. Anjay brought an Afghan casserole. Jessica and James brought a Polish dessert. The kids played cornhole and hopscotch while the adults lingered, laughed, and breathed more easily with the shared kindness and new acquaintances. Phone numbers were exchanged, and offers were made to look after one another’s house during vacation.  

Small, shared acts of kindness leave lasting ripples of goodness. It’s who the church is at its best. It’s who our country is at its best. It’s who Jesus is as he has given ALL our neighbors to be with us. As I write this, I am prayerful for our neighbors in Florida, Georgia, and North Carolina (my best friend in college lives in Asheville), as Hurricane Milton follows in the footsteps of Hurricane Helene. It is hard to comprehend the extent of the damage and loss of life. I confirmed with my friend, Rev. Jeremy Bassett, who heads up Emergency Preparedness for our Horizon Texas Conference, that our greatest point of kindness at this point for our neighbors there is to donate to the United Methodist Committee on Relief. 100% of your dollars go to direct relief. The overhead costs are covered by the apportionments paid by all United Methodist Churches. I am proud to be one of those; I am proud that FUMC Plano is a good neighbor with so many points of kindness.

Breathe peace,

PS: One easy act of kindness for your church and its ministry is to return your Estimate of Giving card if you have not already done so; you can do it HERE.  Thank you!


Hurricane Helene has devastated parts of the southeastern U.S., bringing catastrophic wind, rain and flash flooding to many states and communities. In response, UMCOR is coordinating with affected annual conferences and supporting their local relief efforts. So far, UMCOR has awarded solidarity grants to the North Georgia, South Georgia, Western North Carolina and Holston annual conferences. Additionally, UMCOR-trained Early Response Teams (ERTs) are coordinating efforts to support the removal of debris, tarping of roofs, and cleaning out of homes in hard-hit areas. To support this and other U.S. disaster response efforts, give here.

Read More
Nancy Bryan-Ellison Nancy Bryan-Ellison

Good News(and a little math) Begets Good News

“Beget” – a funny and archaic work found in older Bible translations meaning, “to cause or create.” There’s been a lot of “begetting” in the last week at FUMC.

First, we had some 80 members volunteer under the expert leadership of Randy Jennings to park cars for four days for the Plano Balloon Festival.  We raised $25,000 for missions in the community.

Then, two days later, we held our largest missions golf tournament under the leadership of Keith Landau, David Boatfield, David Keene, and Jennifer Pittman. With another host of volunteers, we enjoyed a record 102 golfers participating – again with all proceeds going to missions. We will reveal that total and our grand total this Sunday during our Consecration Service.  Good news tends to beget good news. This is the nature of grace and the gospel.  Just how great will be up to the Holy Spirit and all of us.  Here is some data:

The average household income in Plano is $145,448.
The median household income in Plano is $105,679.

Let’s use the lower number.

We have 1,051 member families at FUMC, not all of whom are active (this does not include about 100 constituent/guest families who engage regularly).

Let’s use 900 to be conservative. 

The United States charitable giving rate of all people – Christian and non-Christian –  is about 2% of income – the lowest level since 1995.  

Let’s use 2%.

$105,679 X 900 X .02 = $1,902,222. 
This amount is close to what we are tracking to receive in 2024 for FUMC’s ministry.  

Now if we choose to be above average by even just 1%,
then $105,679 X 900 X .03 = $2,853,333.
This would beget an approximately $700,000 surplus in 2025 for FUMC’s ministry.  

Small changes can make an enormous difference. We have figured out in this month of Enough that, for most of us, generosity and joy can increase by moving money over from things that do not last, to things that bring lasting contentment. Send or bring your Estimate of Giving card this Sunday; the children will be here to receive them. For all the good news we will have to report, we have the opportunity to beget still more!   

Connecting God and Grace to Self and Community,

Read More
Nancy Bryan-Ellison Nancy Bryan-Ellison

How Much Will We Save?  How Much Will We Give?

I have been gratified by the response from a number of people who have greatly appreciated our “Enough” series that has focused on equipping our congregation to find joy in simplicity and generosity through better management of their expenditures. Several have reported amazement, even shock, after figuring out how much money they spend on eating out; they just had no idea until they actually did the math. As we have said, most of us have more money to give for the things that matter once we figure out how much we already spend on things that don’t matter as much … like Mountain Dew Code Reds and Snickers bars (confession mine). Without having or earning any more money than we already have, people are discovering that through a little bit of simpler living, they can have a lot more joy by putting that same money where it can do some real good.  

This week or early next week, you will receive a letter from your church inviting you to prayerfully consider what God will receive first from you next year through FUMC Plano. September 29 is our Consecration Sunday where we will receive your Estimate of Giving cards in person and electronically.  Without making any more income in 2025, people are discovering they can give back to God in praise and thanksgiving money they did not know they had.  It is a step of faith that God assures is well-placed:

Bring the whole tenth-part to the storage house so there might be food in my house.  Please test me in this, says the LORD of heavenly forces.  See whether I do not open all the windows of the heavens for you and empty out a blessing until there is enough.  Malachi 3:10

Christ has much for us to do in 2025 – expanded missions, new construction of driveway and parking, a capital campaign to eliminate our remaining debt. Our choices for spending our money now and next year will go far in determining how far we will go together next year. It will take all of us. Thank you for that faithful reflection and response.  

Connecting God and Grace to Self and Community,

Read More
Nancy Bryan-Ellison Nancy Bryan-Ellison

A Pastor and Lawyer Almost Got Taken for “Missing Jury Duty”

Within 24 hours, both Monica Peters – family law lawyer and FUMC Plano member – and I went far down the road to giving money in what sounded like very credible phone calls. A county “Sheriff Department” official alerted us that we had missed our jury summons and were in contempt of court.  We both consider ourselves fairly astute to such scams but were reasonably convinced that that these calls were authentic when they were not. While I was on the call, I checked to see if the name and rank given to me over the phone was on the Denton County’s Sheriff Department’s website. It was there. Even though we both finally saw the contradictions in the story presented and terminated the call before we had given any money, we were both shaken by the realism of the details and our capacity to be drawn in by the ruse. 

I called the Denton County Sheriff’s Department immediately to report that someone was impersonating one of their officers. I spoke to the actual sergeant there, and he informed me that there had been a real uptick in these calls in the last two weeks. They had traced the activity as originating they think, from a prison in Florida and that there was little they could do. Therefore, since these kind of scams have hurt people in our congregation before, I decided to write this. Here are a few important reminders.

  • A jury summons will always be mailed to your home and a summons to appear in court will be given to you in person at your home or business. If you receive a summons over the phone for jury duty or any other kind of summons, hang up.

  • The county, state and federal government (e.g. IRS or FTC) will NEVER ask you for money over the phone or use PayPal, Venmo, etc. to collect any money.  If someone does, hang up. The scammer is playing on your fear.

  • If anyone calls, even from a number that looks legitimate, demanding you comply with the payment of money immediately, hang up.

  • If anyone says you MUST stay on the phone and not call or tell anyone else about the business at hand, hang up.

  • If anyone calls requesting you to prepay fees or taxes in order to receive a lottery prize that you have supposedly won, hang up.

  • If anyone calls posing to represent a legitimate company or utility, demanding immediate payment to make things “right” on your account, hang up.

  • If “tech support” calls or emails claiming you have malware in your system and requests payment to fix the defects or access your computer, hang up.

  • If anyone calls promising something too good to be true and asking for payment to cover the expenses, hang up; it IS too good to be true.

And finally,

  • If anyone says by phone or email that they are your pastor asking you for gift cards and to keep this discrete, hang up and block that sender; he is not your pastor! 

 Unfortunately, these are only a few of the amazingly realistic-sounding ploys that thieves use to play on our fears and prey on our wallets.  Let’s frustrate them.  

With you in the cause for good,

Read More